Its close to 20 years of having seen my present husband,
19 years of having tried to make the first move and 18 and half years of having
coaxed him forcefully to say “I Like You” which in a matter of 8 more hours I
got him to Change Like to Love While quoting to my friends how he “Proposed”
“Proposed for what????” was his perplexed question,
and I ignoring it completely tried to blush like the Idiot Box Heroines that
had romanticized my brains.
Well, his denial was soon converted to delight for the
fact that this means He has a girl available to plan his day, his meals,
company for movies and eating out forever.
As we continued to be together, suddenly out of the
blue I had a severe tummy ache. This happened when we were at the Hospital
together attending Pediatrics Clinic. I started limping while going back to the
hostel and was very worried. The pain increased till I started feeling nausea.
Reaching out to my doctor parents, they gave me some Over the Counter
medications and I settled for a bit. Then the next morning, unable to attend
the clinics I shifted to his flat for care. With the pain increasing and I
throwing up everything I ate, we decided to shift me to the hospital.
Now he was my main care taker and in my romantic brain
that seemed kind of nice. Only issue was that the care taker had to talk to my
not so pleased father every time before and after Doctor’s rounds. My over
protective dad was in dilemma from wanting to say “Stay off my Daughter!!!” to “Stay
with her, she might need help” My mother, blabbered, “She has pain, it must be
a cyst…Years back someone told us she is clinically PCOD(without ever radiologically
finding a cyst in my ovaries)!!!!” From having thought he is dating a smart girl;
he definitely must have thought “This is a defective piece with equally crazy
parents!!!”
I remember when the Surgeon came to see me, she asked “Did
you pass motion?” Here as a new girlfriend, I hadn’t discussed my hopeless
bowel habits with the guy. So, I shared that I was eternally constipated
specially since hostel days. Then the next question “Are you passing gas?” Now
this one I wasn’t going to admit. I thought my existence as a girlfriend and a
future “Real” Prospect of Proposal would be in Jeopardy if I admitted to my
Farts in front of my Boyfriend. Little did I know that this little Lie would mean
they would have a battery of tests ready and a plan of surgery too. They suspected
Intestinal Obstruction!!
Being wheeled to the scan I looked into the mirror
in the lift. The hospital gown wrapped around my body, looked like that old Bedsheet
that was my mom’s favorite, which camouflages with the background having lost
its original colour in multiple laundries. The gown all open from the back, my
formless, shapeless body all enwrapped into it, my bloated face from the continuous
Intravenous fluids being poured in, and my disheveled hair, I glanced at my guy
thinking, “Here goes my chance of having a life long partner. This guy will definitely
not stand the ugly Realness of human body and will instead choose that Red Gown,
Deep Neckline and Stilettos clad Girl in the junior class!!”
And then came the scan. They asked me to hold the Pee.
I drank a lot of water and waited. And Waited…And WAAAAIIITTTED,,, but my turn hadn’t
come. Apparently a difficult scan, then an old lady with bursting bladder, then
a small child who was sedated…..AND I Waited…
According to my friends it was 20 minutes, but for my
bladder it felt like a 20 million hours. AND I HAD TO PEEEEEEEE!!!
He started distracting me with stories of people, juniors,
seniors, childhood pranks and even scary horror stories. AND all I could think
is I NEED TO PEEEE….
And I heard my name being called for the scan! I went
in thankful that I didn’t pee on his pants…That would have been the end of any
prospects of me finding love…
For all the medicos reading and still guessing the
diagnosis, you know you are geeks just like me. It was post-operative adhesions
and got relieved. And for me when I came out of that room and rushed into the
bathroom and peed for the next 20 million hours, I saw the stars and professed
my Love to the Man over and over again! Well that boyfriend was definitely
coaxed and cornered to walk the pheras and become my husband a decade ago!